90 Day Fiance couple Darcey Silva and Tom Brooks are broaching a tense conversation on Season 4 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days, so did they end up staying together or breaking up? And where are they now?
[90 Day Fiance Spoilers: This article contains spoilers that reveal if Tom and Darcey split or the 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days couple is still together].
Tom, a 39-year-old from Nottingham, United Kingdom, and Darcey, a 45-year-old from Middletown, CT, are currently starring on 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days’ new season, which debuted late last month on TLC.
Darcey initially starred on Seasons 1 and 2 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days with her now-ex Jesse Meester. On Season 3 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days, Darcey was shown traveling to England and falling in love with Tom.
When Darcey and Tom first met in person, Darcey had high expectations they’d fall in love quickly since they had already spent years getting to know each other — but Tom wasn’t on the same page.
Darcey was anticipating a possible marriage proposal by the end of her stay, but in Tom’s mind, they were just meeting and had to get to know one another.
“I’m not really at the stage of thinking where I’m going to settle down, get married, have kids, and move to her country or have her move here,” Tom told his sister Emma last season.
“I’m at the point where I’m meeting someone I’ve been really good friends with and I’m going to see where it goes.”
Tom acknowledged Darcey lived in “a bit of a fantasy” when it came to romance and was “a little difficult to deal with,” but he was also very guarded and cautious since he had his heart broken in the past.
As the season progressed, Tom found himself wanting a serious relationship with Darcey, who was willing to give the businessman her whole heart. Tom grew to believe Darcey was a good woman with the best of intentions
So while enjoying their last dinner together in England at the end of Darcey’s stay, Tom told the mother of two, “Here’s to loving and to knowing what love is — and knowing that when you have it, you should hold on to it.”
“I do love you,” Tom told Darcey. “I’ve always loved you. I’m actually in love with you, very much so.”
“I love you,” Darcey replied.
Tom then gave Darcey a key to his house so she could visit any time she’d like. She was disappointed it wasn’t an engagement ring, but Darcey was so head over heels she didn’t care.
When it became time for the pair to say goodbye at the airport, Tom told Darcey after hugging and kissing her, “It’s not goodbye; it’s see you soon… I do see a future with us together.”
But the season finale of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days’ third season showed Tom breaking up with Darcey just a few weeks after she returned to America from her trip to England.
“I saw myself marrying Tom one day. Dated Jesse for two years and then it faded, and here we go again,” Darcey said in a confessional during the episode.
“I’m just going to keep going on with my life, and if someone else comes along that feels right, I’m going to move on with my life.”
Heading into the Tell-All special, however, Tom said his relationship with Darcey was “complicated” because he loved her very much. He therefore wanted to see if being a couple long-term was a real possibility.
Darcey and Tom therefore planned to spend a full day together after filming the Tell-All special for 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days’ third season, which aired on TLC in October 2019.
On the currently-airing fourth season of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days, Darcey revealed she was hurting because she and Tom had “drifted apart” once she returned to the United States.
Darcey wondered if she had been too needy and pointed out how Tom never even called her or sent a card or gift on her birthday, which was one week prior to when this scene filmed.
Darcey felt “sad and unloved” on her birthday, and she cried to the cameras because Tom had allegedly said he was going to call.
Darcey said Tom later texted her, apologizing and asking to videochat so he could tell her something.
Darcey’s twin sister Stacey Silva felt Darcey deserved better and should move on, and Darcey also acknowledged she deserved to be loved passionately and respected.
When the pair finally reconnected through videochat, an alleged “hot and cold” Tom shared that he was going to be in New Jersey to meet with a wine distributor but he’d also be stopping in New York for a couple of days.
Tom asked Darcey if she’d like to meet him in New York, but she could tell he seemed off and didn’t want history to repeat itself.
“If you’re coming here to break up, then just do it over the phone,” Darcey told him.
Tom said he wanted to spend some time with a woman whom he had shared “a romantic notion” with, which made Darcey cop an attitude.
“I don’t want any bad blood. I just don’t know what I’m going to do,” she told the cameras.
Stacey then showed Darcey photos of Tom with another blonde woman. Stacey’s fiance Florian apparently found the pictures because he was still friends with Tom on social media at this time.
Darcey said she was unable to see the photos herself on his social media because she and Tom had blocked each other a few weeks prior after a big fight.
Tom said the woman was sitting in his crotch in one of the photos and he had his hands all over her. Darcey insisted she wasn’t going to let a man play with her heart and so she needed to find out what was going on.
Darcey felt Tom was stringing her along and told Stacey, “That’s not love.” Darcey wondered if Tom had been full of empty words and never really loved her to begin with.